Musings on "The Right Person"

Did I pick the right person? We cannot pick a perfect match, because we, ourselves are not perfect. In choosing a life partner - we are handed a flawless diamond in the rough......only if we are willing to polish off every part of ourselves that cannot join, do we end up with a soul mate. So, ending up with the perfect partner is more about me than the other person.....more about becoming the right person, rather than being with the right person.